You all need to thank god (or whomever) that you don't know what it's like to be in her shoes. I do and it's not a fun place to be. I didn't have sex the week after my fiance died, but I might have if sex was available. Instead I was all alone with no family support and no friends. I would have given anything to have someone hold my hand, let alone fuck me senseless.
People in mourning do some crazy things I don't understand, but that doesn't mean I'm allowed to judge them based on my own set of morals. If she's happy and comfortable with her decisions, then more power to her.
The rest of you need to GFY!
