Originally Posted by Raven

With statements like this, I can now see why Sarah was so reluctant about accepting a collective gift...which is what it was...a gift.

Once the gift leaves my bank or hands, it's out of my judgmental jurisdiction, as I am the one who chose to give, in the first place...Sarah never asked for anything.

She never claimed to need gfy money.....that was something we who sent money decided to do...so, it's irrelevant whether or not anyone is paying her bills...