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Originally Posted by Tala
See, this is something I really don't like about GFY contributions. Someone always has to find a reason to question it.
If I'm not mistaken, she and Marc also had a boyfriend, (or at least she did with Marc's agreement). If that's the case, then the boyfriend would not only be her rock through this, but sex relieves a LOT of stress. Humans are instensely sexual beings, and though you might not agree with it, it's not for GFY to say how she should or should not live her life.
The love of her life may have died, but there are other loves. To turn away from all of the other loves she has is to die. Leave her alone; let her do her own thing.
(Not pointing fingers, I've read MrThumbs' posts. I'm simply stating what I feel.)
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Did anyone even read Tala's post?
Just because it is not how YOU would handle things doesn't mean it is not possible for someone else to handle things.
Usually when there is a tragedy, people respond by having sex..it's life-affirming.
It never ceases to amaze me how most men can easily separate sex and love, but those same men can't accept that some women can, as well.
Just let it be..if he was aware and encouraging of her bf, then who are any of us to say otherwise?