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Originally Posted by Warden
I'm sorry if this thread came off as a rant. It was something I brought up jokingly to my wife, and she joked back about the devorce thing. We're happily married, however sex and head are too few and far between! Then again, I want it just about every night!
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Every marriage has it's up and down times man, and it sounds like you're in a down time.
When the wife and I talked a few years ago, she told me she'd UNDERSTAND if I had an affair because she stopped putting out. She just asked that I mention to her that I was getting frustrated, so she at least knew. Now, if we go for any extended period (which is VERY rare), I point this out to her and things pick up.
The best suggestion I can make is take her away from the daily stresses of life. Be it a luxury hotel, cabin in the woods or even a tradeshow. Once she gets away from it all, she'll probably be all over you. Oh, if you can afford it, buy a hottub. The quality time we spend together now has increased tenfold.
I have WAY more fun when I take my wife to a show like Vegas because she turns into the minx I married, when we've got no kids around.