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Originally Posted by punkworld
I honestly love bigger chicks, but it's seriously annoying how most of them are completely obsessed with self esteem issues regarding their weight. And of the ones who aren't shy/introverted because of their size, quite a few display an extremely loud and obviously faked "confidence" or even arrogance?
What's up with that? What ever happened to big, happy, confident women?
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my guess would be because big girls get picked on a lot, it takes a toll on their self esteem. A lot of white men are especially cruel to big woman, anything over a size 7 is usually considered fat.
i'm by no means skinny, last time i was skinny was 2nd grade, 3rd grade i had a B cup and hips, but i don't consider myself fat, i'm a size 12, 38DDD's and a 47 inch big booty, but my waist is about 29-30 inches, thats about a 17/18 inch difference between my waist and ass, so i'm more of a hour glass shape, then fat, cause i don't have a big stomach. But i'm sure there are a lot of people that would think different then me and call me fat. I've been called fat, but it just doesn't bother me, i don't know why, but it just doesn't. Maybe it's cause I get so much attention from men everytime i leave the house, i dunno... but one thing is for sure, topics like this aren't going to help big women feel any better if they already have confidence issues.