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We are adults, we make the decisions we make as adults and when it is time to answer to ANYONE about the decisions we make, we choose to answer to them or not answer to them as adults.
I have done pics on the Internet myself, however, my kids all knew before hand what I did and I do for a living. I am not a whore and my husband is the photographer and I hold all my pics myself, I don't sell them to anyone or allow anyone else to have them for their sites, this way I have more control over them than these models do.
I have recently stopped doing the pics of myself, simply because the job I have has allowed me not to have the desire to do that anymore. It was a means to feed my kids at a time when my family needed the extra money. As a result of my doing porn, I have landed a very nice job with a great company that is not so focused on Adult Material anymore. We have a corporate side as well as an adult side of things. So NOW when people ask me what I do I can send them to a link that isn't going to make ANY trouble for my kids.
MOST everyone I know knew and knows what I do, I don't hide it, don't broadcast it, but don't lie about it either.
In the end though, it is ME who has the explaining to do, not the people who bought into my site, not the ones who took the pics and certainly not the ones that would see them online, it is ME!! I was an adult when I started doing it and am an adult now, therefore there is no one to possibly blame but myself!!
While I am not a model by ANY means, I have done nude pics on the internet so I kinda know what you are talking about, and I can tell yuo from someone who has done it, it is no one's responsibility or blame but my own.
Did that make any sense at all?
Tam
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