Had to jump in on this one. I love Tala's threads.
I'm built weird for a fat girl...42-36-50...yup, it's almost all in my ass, though 2 c-sections in 22 months didn't do my waistline much good, lol. Spooning works well, but I always seem to wind up with a wet ass....seems my big ass is *too* perfect of a resting spot for my huband's 10.5 inches, (yes, size *does* matter), if you know what I mean.
I love hugging a guy who's arms are just below or just above mine...and seeing how I'm only 5'3" it's usually just above, lol. Too far up there and I feel like I'm being smothered, lol.
Anyway, with regard to the insult, I second the post about insecurity. That's one of the smartest things I've heard in a while. Kudos to that poster. That was not a waist of a post.
<I'm diverting attention for you-feel better now, sweetie? I'm so selfless sometimes, lmfao>