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Chelsea Romero · 12-11-2004, 02:35 AM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by dcortez
Why do you need to explain it to people who may give you grief about it?

Finding acceptance from the 'opposition' is unlikely and kind of pointless. If you're trying to convert someone to see your point of view that is no different then other people telling you that 'porn is wrong'.

However, there is tremendous value in seeking out worthwhile peers with whom you can debate your views and evolve your attitude towards your choices and consider the consequences in a constructive environment.

At a greater level, you can even pursue and/or participate in efforts to 'educate' the 'outsiders' with a more accurate sense of what adult entertainent involves. But I would not worry so much about that - popular culture (TV) is doing a really good job of taking the harsh edge away from 'porn'.

-Dino [/QUOT

Well said... But its not WHY you have to explain it to someone, its how do you explain it to people who mean the most to you?.I think we all have had a situation where it is important to make sense of what we do to someone we care about.... This board is all BAD ASS cause its called "GO fuck yourself" And thats bad ass and all , and everyone one wants to front... BUT, lets be real for a second... We all have not just said "fuck off to important people in our lives.... What do you say to make it better.... or does it not get better from here?

12-11-2004, 02:35 AM
Chelsea Romero Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: LA! Posts: 175	[QUOTE]Originally posted by dcortez Why do you need to explain it to people who may give you grief about it? Finding acceptance from the 'opposition' is unlikely and kind of pointless. If you're trying to convert someone to see your point of view that is no different then other people telling you that 'porn is wrong'. However, there is tremendous value in seeking out worthwhile peers with whom you can debate your views and evolve your attitude towards your choices and consider the consequences in a constructive environment. At a greater level, you can even pursue and/or participate in efforts to 'educate' the 'outsiders' with a more accurate sense of what adult entertainent involves. But I would not worry so much about that - popular culture (TV) is doing a really good job of taking the harsh edge away from 'porn'. -Dino [/QUOT Well said... But its not WHY you have to explain it to someone, its how do you explain it to people who mean the most to you?.I think we all have had a situation where it is important to make sense of what we do to someone we care about.... This board is all BAD ASS cause its called "GO fuck yourself" And thats bad ass and all , and everyone one wants to front... BUT, lets be real for a second... We all have not just said "fuck off to important people in our lives.... What do you say to make it better.... or does it not get better from here?