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During the 9 years that I was married in the 1990's, I became a different person...more independent and less willing to put up with shit from a significant other because "the devil you know is better than the one you don't". Since my divorce almost 5 years ago, I've dated here and there but haven't found anyone that can keep up with me...(haven't found one in my income bracket or even close that I could stand) and the more I tried to look past the $$ thing the more I ended up getting used. More recently I think I've either shut down altogether or just given up. Sure it would be nice to have someone other than my teenage boys to go to the movies, concerts, ballgames, or dinner with... but I don't see it happening anytime soon.
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