you're treated how you deserve to be treated in this industry... if you act like a slut you're treated like a slut and if you act like a professional you're treated like a professional.. regardless of whether you're man or woman.. just look at juicy.. acts like a slut - treated like a slut.
seriously though, you make your bed so you lie in it. If you want to go around with your tits hanging out at all the conventions and discuss business with your pussy and then you get treated badly it's nobody's fault but your own. If you can do your job effectively and act like it's really a business instead of playtime you're good to go.