In my old days I would say that your woman shouldn't tell you what to do with YOUR money but now I'm older I realize that if you love the woman, fuck it. You can always make more money and you can always hide money that she won't know about and spend it like you want.
Do whatever it takes to make her happy. It's easier in the long run....If you can afford to spend 30k on some bullshit, then I'm sure that money isn't really an issue in your relationship.
I'm becoming the Kinder, Gentler BVF.
