The key is to be yourself..........
I don't say anything here that I wouldn't say to anybody's face or in conversation........to the dissmay of my wife........
It is more or less like hanging with the buds
,
one always try to shoot them down but when it counts you get the
man love...........
It can be completle Mudd slinging or it can also be very poiniant down right cerebral.........
But as with all relations you take the good with the nasty and move on................