I've been away for a while and totally missed all this so a very belated condolences - I'm genuinely very, very sorry to hear about your loss Sarah.
We're probably too far North now to be of much help but if there's anything we can do just ask.
A couple of posts in this thread show why the kids who have wandered in here and started trolling should have been banned a long time ago. Nobody with any maturity would have made posts like those
