Those are good qualities to look for. I'd have to draw the line at the open house policy thing. My house is my haven and I don't like to feel invaded. But with everyone having cell phones we don't have a problem anymore. Call me from downtown and let me know you're in the area. If I'm home, you're welcome to come by. Just let me know so I can put all the unmentionables away before you get here.
As far as teasing goes, most balanced women are okay with it as long as it's not malicious and as long as you can take it as well as you dish it out.