Im so sorry to hear about your loss....
Im sure u have people around to help you out at this time
But later, if you ever feel at a loss just send me an ICQ 637-7971. Im in central London and I can always meet u for a large drink or 2, and I have very broad shoulders
Also dont hesitate if you need some work done...... I can turn my hand to anything, and the last thing you need is cash flow problems.
Anyway best wishes
Damian