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Originally posted by CET
Also, give him lots of space. When I'm pissy, the last thing I need is someone in my face, even if they're trying to be nice and helpful. It's nothing but an annoyance to me.
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THIS is so very true, and it's not just CET who gets pissy....
I quit for him. I had smoked for 10 years, but my addiciton wasn't the nicotine. Mine was something to do with my hands, and I fell back on smoking as a way to ease stress.
Near the end, I was down to half a pack or so a day unless I was in a social situation which required me to be in a large group in small surroundings, i.e. a pub. Then I would smoke like a fiend.
I quit the first time in 2000. Stress got to me earlier this year and I started up again, only to stop in July. Haven't touched one since.
Just be there for him. It's hard, and he may well end up being a total bitch about it. Just be there and know that it's not really YOU that's the problem.
You're welcome to hit me up on Q anytime you need to talk.
