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Tam · 11-17-2004, 08:56 AM

I have been asked this alot... and it's always the same answer. I have 4 kids, ages 20, 15, 10 and 6. If one of them came and said that they were gay, I wouldn't really "DO" anything....... other than support them on it, I figure they have made their decision and there isn't a way to change it so why should I? They are my kids and I love them unconditionally.

NOW, I wouldn't really "want" this for them just for the simple fact they would have a hard road ahead of them, I know how very brutal people can be, but if this is what they want, or who they are, then I am ok with this. I don't want them to make ANY decision that is going to make their lives more difficult than they already are, but they are humans and they chose their paths, the least I can do is support them on this, something I never got when I was growing up.

The thing is, we don't get to choose, and I firmly believe this, WHO we fall in love with, and I am ok with this. I WANT them to chose someone who is good to them, loves them and loves them unconditionally just as me and their dad does..... as long as they have this in their lives, I don't really care of they are same sex or opposite sex, as long as the other half loves them and respects them as I do, that's really all I can ask or expect.

11-17-2004, 08:56 AM
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	I have been asked this alot... and it's always the same answer. I have 4 kids, ages 20, 15, 10 and 6. If one of them came and said that they were gay, I wouldn't really "DO" anything....... other than support them on it, I figure they have made their decision and there isn't a way to change it so why should I? They are my kids and I love them unconditionally. NOW, I wouldn't really "want" this for them just for the simple fact they would have a hard road ahead of them, I know how very brutal people can be, but if this is what they want, or who they are, then I am ok with this. I don't want them to make ANY decision that is going to make their lives more difficult than they already are, but they are humans and they chose their paths, the least I can do is support them on this, something I never got when I was growing up. The thing is, we don't get to choose, and I firmly believe this, WHO we fall in love with, and I am ok with this. I WANT them to chose someone who is good to them, loves them and loves them unconditionally just as me and their dad does..... as long as they have this in their lives, I don't really care of they are same sex or opposite sex, as long as the other half loves them and respects them as I do, that's really all I can ask or expect.