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Originally posted by WiredGuy
You ever watch the movie Family Man with Nicholas Cage? I often feel like his character did, especially around Christmas time. The way my life is leading right now, I see myself ending up being financially secure but being rather lonely and isolated. The creation of my business has been great and possibly the worst thing that I could have done to my social life. Talk about a cross road in your life but to be honest, I'd rather not think about the what-if situation.
WG
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Google-king,
and everone else sharing the same feelings..
There are plenty of us who feel the same, I for one can't help it sometimes.
But I agree with previous posters in that dwelling won't get You anywhere..
I also strongly believe that there are both positive & negative things in both
every decision and the results thereof.
So I always LOOK, really hard if necessary, for the positive stuff and
make sure I don't think/worry TOO much about the "bad angles".
Whenever You feel too much like You haven't made the right choices etc.,
You're basically just ignoring the "bad angles" of having gone the other way or
made other decisions.. both potential and definite results thereof.
It can be hard to look at it this way at times but You have to realise that
what one thinks are unfortunate results of choices made, could as well be there
even if one took a 180 degree turn earlier instead.
Another thing to realise is that what You believe You're missing now as a
result, might just turn up THANKS to the choices You've made...
Just gotta keep the faith in Yourself, keep looking for opportunities now and then
and look positively at things.
