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Originally posted by Chandiegirl
True, oh wise one. 
However, the hidden variable is that no matter how mature and capable of "moving on" you are, you still can't control the
other persons maturity or ability to handle themselves in
said situations. In a group of friends, everyone would
help temper the situation. In biz, people won't interject
as freely.
Just my  ...and believe me, I've earned 'em.
C
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IF that person is that way. Let them be. All you can ever control is yourself. I always say "Kill them with kindness" do the same with an ex and for the most part they will have nothing bad to say about you. And if they do talk shit people will eventually see through them and realize they are not worth being around.
For the most part anything negative that comes out of a relationship is usually because the relationship was continued on longer than it should have been. So the real question is when you know something is wrong do you stay in too long or do you know how to cut the cord early before things become too drama filled. That is where the drama comes from most of the time from all relationships industry or not.