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Originally posted by phogirl69
My guy says that he has been with around 20-something or so girls (also he told me half of them were hookers) and he's 25.... I still think that's a bit much... I know your partner's past is not supposed to bother you, but when a guy has a lot of partners I feel like I am being compared to all the other women in his past, looks-wise and also performance wise in bed and I'm sure out of that many people I can't be #1.
I know it's a stupid and an ego thing, but I can't help it, I just don't like to be compared to anyone else or if I do, I like to be #1. He says that he doesn't care about looks or sex, and that it's more about time spent together... but even so, it still bothers me.
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That's a good thing IMO, he got all his dirtiness out of his system. Guys who have had a lot of sex are a whole lot less likely to do something stupid like cheat down the road. I got it on with a lot of girls in college, and I haven't even considered fucking around on my wife, and I never will. What's the point, I know what's out there, there's no reason to mess up a good thing. If I had only had sex with 2-3 women before I got married, it would be a whole hell of a lot harder to ignore them when they're checking you out.
