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Originally posted by phogirl69
My guy says that he has been with around 20-something or so girls (also he told me half of them were hookers) and he's 25.... I still think that's a bit much... I know your partner's past is not supposed to bother you, but when a guy has a lot of partners I feel like I am being compared to all the other women in his past, looks-wise and also performance wise in bed and I'm sure out of that many people I can't be #1.
I know it's a stupid and an ego thing, but I can't help it, I just don't like to be compared to anyone else or if I do, I like to be #1. He says that he doesn't care about looks or sex, and that it's more about time spent together... but even so, it still bothers me.
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What makes you think we compare you to others we have had sex with?
Growing up when I did I had the opportunity for mucho sex, with mucho different chicks . . . but I can't say that I ever compared one to the other unless I had them both there at the same time . . . although there are a few who stand out in my memory, I sure don't compare during the act.