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PK, although a lot of people start off with an imaginary perfect life & glorified stories, someone always comes along to change that for them.
My personal opinion is that once that stage is over & done with, people open up and give more of themselves online than they do in person - reason being is that it's such a longshot & so simple to end, that they'll risk putting themselves out for critique or judgement for that slim hope that they'll find someone who accepts them for who they are.
I met my husband online & we've been married for over 5 years. It's the best relationship I've had - no fear of being judged, objective criticism & acceptance is genuine. I don't know how many online stories have succeeded, but of the stories I do hear, most will say the same - online relationships (friendships or more) turn out to be strong bonds & genuine if the two people check their facades at the door.
Although I don't know you, I've followed your bits & pieces that you do share online & I can't wait to hear that you've found the man that completes your puzzle and loves you for you and not necessarily your way of living or what you've accumulated. Best wishes on finding him!
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