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Originally posted by Sana Chan
We've had this discussion in my psychology classes. Even the "Positive Experiences" teacher thinks a kind needs their ass beat on occation. Course she limits it to about 5 reasons and says to follow up with an explination of why the child got it and what they should do the next time that situation comes up.
Example:
1. Child starts screaming and when you tell them to be quiet they outright yell "No" and try to hit you.
2. Spank child.
3. Tell child that he is not suppose to hit his mother and that every time he does, he'll get another spanking.
4. FOLLOW THROUGH!!! This is most important. Next time the child displays that behavior, spank them. They'll learn.
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That's the perfect way to tell your child that it is ok to use violence if you can't handle the situation.
Your child will learn that and use that later when he or she get older.
Your teacher should get her ass fired for even comming up with any scenario where it would be okay to hit a child.
And yes we got a boy on 6 years and one that is almost 3 months old, I know it can be frustrating some times but never to the point where I could ever consider spanking any of them.
If anyones kids behave like that they need to take more time with their kids so they can get a better understanding of each other.
A child scream, yell and kick because of frustration, parents hit because of frustation.