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Originally posted by Sana Chan
We've had this discussion in my psychology classes. Even the "Positive Experiences" teacher thinks a kind needs their ass beat on occation. Course she limits it to about 5 reasons and says to follow up with an explination of why the child got it and what they should do the next time that situation comes up.
Example:
1. Child starts screaming and when you tell them to be quiet they outright yell "No" and try to hit you.
2. Spank child.
3. Tell child that he is not suppose to hit his mother and that every time he does, he'll get another spanking.
4. FOLLOW THROUGH!!! This is most important. Next time the child displays that behavior, spank them. They'll learn.
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If you're talking about damage control ya.. but by the time a kid says no to his mother it's a little late to expect to see any real change