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Originally posted by Satisfaction
i was wondering what people thought about 'breaks' (time apart to think things thorugh) with their girlfriends.. I personally think that they are just a total waste of each others time and delaying the inevitable... i see this used alot when one member feels guilty of cheating for example and resolves to this to help save things..
do people agree? what are your thoughts?
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it's no different then putting a band aid on a shotgun wound. you may end up back together and things may be great for a short while.
however those things that bothered you about your partner before, will bother you 2 fold after a while and you will truly resent getting back together with that person cause that time will be wasted.
i could be wrong but i have never experienced a positive "break" nor have i ever seen anyone experience that either.