I see a few of your problems as follows:
1. you havn't got your weenie wet and your 21 ( CUT IT OFF! my 13 yr old lil brother got ya beat! )
2. Self Esteem!!...act like your the man and she will think you are!
3. explain BUKKAKE to her it turns my girly on every time
4. if all else fails......get some 40's and some hookers...always a good time!
o ya and
5. your a flamer
