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Originally posted by baddog
one more time . . . If a chick cheats with you, she will cheat on you.
you are wasting time on her, move on
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Okay, from a woman's perspective:
baddog's right.
You may well have been in love with her, but from what I've read, she wasn't particularly in love with you.
Here's the trick: she says she doesn't love you and never did, fine. Should she call or come over or some such, IGNORE her. Completely. Cut her. Have nothing to do with her. Make her feel like utter dogshit. Women thrive on attention. We crave it more than anything else. When a man doesn't give us the attention we want, we get really upset.
She hurt you. By having nothing more to do with her, it gives you time to get over your pain and makes it very clear to her that she should have thought things through before she left a guy like you. By giving yourself over to "revenge", you're just giving her the attention she wants and she's winning all over again.
And yes, I've been in love. I've been hurt. We've all been there. But nothing hurt me worse than when someone I loved suddenly cut me completely. It's been eight years and I still haven't spoken with him. I realize now that I was a complete bitch and didn't deserve him, but at that time I was completely baffled. Let her learn the hard way. Take your vengeance on her by not letting her have any of the attention she so desperately wants from you, be it good or bad.
Move on.
