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Originally posted by SuckOnThis
Anytime you're in love with someone they have a power over you. Okay so let me ask you this. If you just left a guy you loved for whatever reason would you rather him start sleeping in your yard because he can't live without you or would you rather him be cool about it? Maybe your ego would like him sleeping in your yard but you would definitely have more respect for him if he played it cool.
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I guess I'd rather him be true to his feelings. I wouldn't want someone to be fake just to get me back. If he acts cool about it, I would probably think he really didn't care. In fact, I once broke up with a guy because he was being cool about things and I thought he wasn't into the relationship. It wasn't until after I broke up with him and he cried that I realized he was just trying to be cool and aloof. It really broke his heart and I felt miserable. Things ended up not working out with us, anyway, but I'm certain he would tell you that I lost ZERO respect for him after he beared his feelings to me. If anything I respected him more.
And if he was so troubled that he feels the need to sleep in my yard, I most certainly WOULD respect him. I could never have any lack or respect for someone who cared that deeply about me.
Of course, I may be the exception to the norm. I can't say how other women would behave in similar situations. I've just never known more than a very few women who are as shallow and cruel as the women I hear talked about by the guys on this board. (My sister-in-law is one of them.)