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Originally posted by Frile
Yeah, im telling everything... but remember we were not having a very good time together like before, since like 4 weeks ago, when we came back from a trip. We were all the time together but exhausted, sex not good as before, less conversation, more fights (specially she was hysterical all the time with me) and i said cruel things to her. Thats it. And i think the fight before the ending was all she needed to take this step. But we are talking about a few weeks like this... both under extreme circunstances.
And the first times i called her after the split, i was devastated and wanted to meet her, and she was keep telling me that there was no point in getting together since she was indiferent and had no feelings for me, but sound with angry or even hate against me, and always hung up on me. Until yesterday when we finally had a decent phone call, which i started really cool but i ended when i was getting emotional. Today i called her after i drop her a photo of us in her house, but she was angry about it and hung on me again.
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Sounds like you just need to cool it a little. I think she's probably willing to listen, but you're probably freaking her out by being a little too emotional. If you were having alot of little fights for weeks, she probably sees you as being volatile and the thing that would probably work best is to talk to her very casually every couple of days, just friendly, don't get too emotional. I know that will be hard, but it's important that you keep yourself together. Then maybe she will make the move to get back together.