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Originally posted by tootie
Just from you saying that she refuses to see you at all makes it sound like she isn't really as mad at you as she would like you to believe. She WILL talk to on the phone, is that correct?
Again, I'm only speaking from personal experience, but if I was willing to speak with you on the phone, but not see you in person, it would probably be because I still had feelings for you and wanted to talk things out, but I knew that I'd forgive you immediately and want to be back with you right away if I saw you.
I don't want to get your hopes up, because not knowing her at all I could be totally wrong about her intentions, I'm just letting you know how I would likely react in the situation.
It just doesn't make sense for her to want to leave you over something so trivial as a small nitpicky fight, especially when surely she has to know how many cheaters, beaters and addicts are out there now. It seems to me that either you're not telling the whole story or she doesn't really want to leave at all.
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Yeah, im telling everything... but remember we were not having a very good time together like before, since like 4 weeks ago, when we came back from a trip. We were all the time together but exhausted, sex not good as before, less conversation, more fights (specially she was hysterical all the time with me) and i said cruel things to her. Thats it. And i think the fight before the ending was all she needed to take this step. But we are talking about a few weeks like this... both under extreme circunstances.
And the first times i called her after the split, i was devastated and wanted to meet her, and she was keep telling me that there was no point in getting together since she was indiferent and had no feelings for me, but sound with angry or even hate against me, and always hung up on me. Until yesterday when we finally had a decent phone call, which i started really cool but i ended when i was getting emotional. Today i called her after i drop her a photo of us in her house, but she was angry about it and hung on me again.