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Originally posted by Frile
I think she is doing something alone those lines. I also think she believes now ill always be like that... so instead of having good and bad times occasionally, she preffers to leave me.
Another thing... she doesn't want to see me at all. Not by any chance, she refused everytime i could speak with her. This is very strange considering that she didnt left me for a strong fight, like me cheating her or something like that. I think she wants to forget me as quickly as she can...
Ahhh, she has huge pride which is turning against me now. But if i leave for good, she will never be back, im sure of that.
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Just from you saying that she refuses to see you at all makes it sound like she isn't really as mad at you as she would like you to believe. She WILL talk to on the phone, is that correct?
Again, I'm only speaking from personal experience, but if I was willing to speak with you on the phone, but not see you in person, it would probably be because I still had feelings for you and wanted to talk things out, but I knew that I'd forgive you immediately and want to be back with you right away if I saw you.
I don't want to get your hopes up, because not knowing her at all I could be totally wrong about her intentions, I'm just letting you know how I would likely react in the situation.
It just doesn't make sense for her to want to leave you over something so trivial as a small nitpicky fight, especially when surely she has to know how many cheaters, beaters and addicts are out there now. It seems to me that either you're not telling the whole story or she doesn't really want to leave at all.