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Originally posted by tootie
I don't agree that just because a girl cheats she will always cheat. I have only ever cheated twice and even though I felt I had very valid reasons at the time I felt terribly guilty about it afterwards.
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Thanks a LOT tootie for sharing your experience... i don't know you but i can see you are a great girl and what you told me reminds me a lot of my love, and i feel very much like crying now...
She was like you... when we saw for the first time we couldnt resist each other. No matter what was going on around us we gave to each other and lived an intense relation until this sudden ending, which i admit i have the full responsability. She cheated the guy cause she couldnt have what she was looking for... she was bored all the time, but she felt very protected with him, thats why she took 8 months to left him and be 100% with me. And i can testify that the last month with both of us were really hard for her... she wasnt having a good time at all.
But tell me... what do you think about this now? Listen to the facts... we were most of the days together, until the very ending she was calling me several times a day to see where i was and to ask me to see her, we had a great trip a month ago, we were both tired a lot, she has personal issues (with depressed mother, financial problems, mentally ill bother, etc.), we fought a lot recently and i said bad bad things to her... not all the time of course, but they were said.
Do you think she is really indiferent with me and doesnt feel anything at all like she is telling me now? Or this is a masquerade to sustain her decision?