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Old 09-27-2004, 09:36 AM  
Sarah_Jayne
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For a lot of women in friendship and in a relationship the feelings expressed towards them are only as good as the last time they heard them. Men can, for example, here 'I love you' and unless 'I don't love you' is said they take it as read that the last 'I love you' still stands. Many women (and I am guilty of this sometimes too) read that as 'I love you now' and if they don't hear it again for a while start to worry because if they haven't been told it again then it might not still be valid. For friendships it is the same but with less extreme words. If she hasn't called me maybe she doesn't like me anymore?

I am not really like that with friends but I can be with boyfriends. Don't make me guess your feelings, etc.
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