i told my father straight up before i even put pixel to monitor.. He wanted to invest a few $k!! My mother's a fanatical right wing christian who speaks in tongues over the phone.. Im in-your-face-honest and i told her straight after i'd started and constantly refer to it, and discuss in detail my plans for sextoys i have in the works.. as far as she's concerned, she'd rather i was using my powers for good instead of evil, but she knows i don't give a fuck what she thinks so she mostly puts it out of her mind.. plus i still have a respectable day job so it's not that bad.. she has a resigned disgust when i do stuff like send my father centrefold-signed penthouses for father's day.. but eh.. it's so he can show off to his plumber mates... my partner
tolerates what i do...
hungryman, im really sorry to hear about that.. i know how you feel.. i've been with my girl for almost 8 years now and we've been through similar stuff.. theres so much stuff i wish i could take back... still.. you've just got to make the best of what you can and learn from you experiences (ie.
she's always right lol

j/k)
good luck mate..