We just moved into this neighbourhood a few months ago... now we're planning to stay for many years, and I'm getting to meet the neighbours and they're all great so far.. Well I heard from one of the ladies I talk to that the man across the street (he was a cop) got into his car and went to drive to work, had a heart attack and died instantly waiting in traffic. He was 48. His wife is totally devistated and everyone is getting together to try to help her out. Now I don't know this woman, but all the people I've met know her and the couple was very highly regarded. Would it seem strange if I sent her a card or somethign even though she hasn't met me yet nor does she even know my name?
What would you do? I really feel badly for the lady (I can't even IMAGINE what I would do in her position, I'd be totally lost without jact), but is this going to be TOO strange or what? Any input would help

Thanks..
Oh and you haters, fuck off :P