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she has to quit for herself NOT for you!!
tell her it hurts you but its her choice to quit, the first fight or if you break up and she will go back to smoking if its based on you
I quit 1 1/2months ago, not for my fiancee, but myself - tell her to cut down until she is able to do 2 a day, then she can do cold turkey.. either way, keep supporting her, but you may have to face living your life with her smoking... if you cant prepare yourself for that - then its unfair to her to change for you, and its not right for you to put up with someone that does.
do whats best for you - and allow her to do whats best for her
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