09-13-2004, 11:18 AM
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Originally posted by chase
Kinda depends on the kind of people you guys are...
If you are seriously aiming towards being together someday, and trying to build a life together, then I think the best plan is brutal honesty.....You can try the whole faithful thing, but how realistic is it really? Some women can handle not having daily attention and affection, and some can't, so they find a way to get it. Same for guys. Personally, if my husband and I were separated by distance, but still together in spirit, I would take this approach:
If he's truly in love with me, no physical encounter with even the best looking chick in the world is going to change that, and vice versa. So, we would probably agree that we would lead our own lives while apart, as long as......
1) Protection is ALWAYS used....not only with anyone besides us, but also with us together until we have been reunited and consistently tested negative for anything for six months. We have babies to raise, and we plan on being around for a long time.
2) Our situation is completely divulged to any third parties. Don't want to break anyone's heart, or lead anyone on.
3) If either of us gets uncomfortable with anyone the other is seeing while we are apart, OR any part of our agreement, gotta give that respect and break it off or reevaluate the agreement.
But that's us, and what works for us doesn't work for everybody. We have a very trusting, loving relationship and we know the difference between love and sex.......and the sex we have together is always the best because we are in love.
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To each their own.
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