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I ended this day telling my boss to go fuck himself and I left work with the words "From now on I am sick and I wont tell you when im back again"
So was I wrong for telling my boss this you think.
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For me, I find that just about the only time that
tellin someone "go fuck yourself" is the best
course of action is when they ask me what the
busiest adult board is.
Call me a wuss, but what works better for me is
to say "Dave, these am having a problem because
of these two issues, ____ and ____. These two problems
haven't gotten better in the last year or so.
Is there anything I can do to help you fix these
problems, because if not I don't think I'll be able to
continue working here."
I had a scheduling problem one time that I ncely brought
to my boss's attention. he said that if I thought
I could write a schedule that would keep everyone
happy go right ahead. I did a good schedule and
kept writing the schedule for the next year or two.
OK, so let's say you decide that wasn't the best thing to do.
Each day at bedtime, I look over my day, looking for
times when I've behaved badly because I was being
selfish, angry, or afraid. then that night or the next
day I call the people or whatever and make it right.
Maybe you still want to quit, but you can still call the
boss or go by and say "I apologize for losing my temper.
I was angry about other things and let my anger get the best of me.
Though I do feel that I need to move on, I wish you well."