There are more of us than you think> I've been in the online biz since I was about 25-26. Before that, I was just doing porn in a different format (still behind the camera). I'm not a sales rep and I've never felt the need to post my pics for GFY approval or whatever. I do my thing (text, free sites, marketing rep) and I let my work speak for myself. If someone gets to know me, they do it because they like me, not because I whored my pics on GFY.
That said, I disagree with phogirl. I'd date another webmaster. They're regular people just like us and at least you have something in common to talk about when you get in bed at night.