Hi Jason, Welcome to the Board and Go Fuck Yourself...
that said, you seem to be too wary of what's legal and what isn't, you'd try to do some research on AVS, that way, you'r ass would be covered in most senses and places, since you are asking for proof of age.
I'm sure you'll stay out of the shady areas of adult webmastering, and with AVS you can't really go wrong...
contact me on ICQ if you need anything, 48690894
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