Paul Waters

OK. I have been with this woman for almost five years. She moved in 3 days after our first date. I am now 47, she is 50. I fucked up big time, and deserve some shit for it.

It has gone bad. It went bad a long time ago. I used to travel a lot, so it was easier to go with the flow. But I am no longer boarding the planes, and I finally engineered the split which she resisted because she is too old to start again. Or so I thought.. She says she will not leave until she has enough to buy a place where she can live and do her pro-domme bdsm thing and rent out part to a border. If I write a cheque for 35,000 her ass is gone.

She has seen a lawyer and knows her legal claim is zero. But she feels that she deserves a shit load for making my life miserable for a long time. OK, that is me venting and she has her side as well.

But I need her ass out. I don?t want to line the pockets of a lawyer if I can avoid it. And my big concern is her nuking my stuff which a lawyer could not prevent. I have a life to lead, a main job to do, and a porn biz to do.

She has been gone on a holiday for two weeks and life was golden. She returned today and life is hell. She wants to keep sleeping in the same bed. I want her ass out, at least to the other bedroom. She went to bed, and locked the bedroom door. I went and added some things to her hosts file. But I am major not proud of that.

I just want this to end. I have owned my condo for 17 years, and want my home back, on my own.

I need help on how to make that happen. How do I get her out.

If there are a couple of babes in Toronto who will exchange a year of room and board for a minor war experience, I want to talk to you about moving in to the spare room!

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Paul