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She is either:
1. Getting it from some place else.
2. Bored of what you give her.
3. On some form of pill or what not that has killed her sex drive.
4. Sick of you but afraid to break up for fear of hurting you. So, she is cutting you off with the hope you will be the one that ends it.
Or some or all of the above.
My first guess would be 1 (because you had to come here to ask advice) and second guess 4.
None the less. If you want to be with her then you need to sit down with her and ask her what the deal is. Don't make it some big thing. Just talk and really listen to what she has to say about it. Just be prepared to deal with what she tells you. After all it might be options 1, 2 or 4 listed above.
If you don't want to do that there is another way. It takes patience. You reverse the game. You say, once a month. Ok, you take that time when you can tell it's your time to get some. You kiss her, make out, what ever untill you can tell she is hot and then you back off and tell her you just want to cuddle that night. The key is you do just that. Walk away. This does two things. it makes her understand that you are with her for more than sex and leaves her still wanting a ride.
The risk with the above, and its a good one given your girlfriends age, you leave her warm and she fucks your best friend the next day. If that doesn't go down she should be ripe for a few weeks at least.
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