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Originally posted by phogirl69
CRAZY psycho questions from a crazy person : me
I love torturing people with my neurotic questions...
-Do you think it's cheating if a guy has a gf and gets lap dances at a strip club, where there's lots of physical contanct/grinding, the stripper grabbing the guy's dick? Why and why not? It's basically dry humping, so why would it be cheating with a "real girl" but not with a stripper?
-Why do you think it's ok for you to have many partners but not girls? How are girls different from you? Do they not have sexual needs as well? How is it different? How do you justify the differences... Girls have to sow their wild oates as well....
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#1 Yes I do think it's cheating. I believe it is okay for a taken guy to look at a girl, to appreciate the girl, but when it comes to turning to that girl for sexual or emotional(love) pleasure, it becomes wrong, because you SHOULD be devoted to your partner.
#2 The reason I think that is because of the way I have been brought up in school, if I was brought up differently, my opinions today would be totally different. Although I agree with you that the girl has the samerights as a guy, that there shouldnt be a difference (I try to convince myself this day and night), there is something inside me that says it's wrong, deep down in my gut, I can't help but take that complicated emotion and feeling away, as much as I want to,because of all the dilemma and somewhat sadness it causes me. Bottom line, the world is twisted place in which things are far from perfect, but I do believe that girls should have the same right as we men do.
if you have any other questions please don't hesitate to ask
