Quote:
Originally posted by phogirl69
No, not just overmasturbation, I already told him that all guys do that so it can't be that which is making him ill. But he says the weight lifting damaged him too...
Plus he claims that masturbation is more harmful than having sex. Because when you have sex you get "estrogen" from the girl and you don't get that with masterbation.... WTF?!
I don't think I want to out with this guy anymore, because he is just too mental, even for me, and I already have enough stress in my life. I can't deal with someone this disillusional. I was hoping that maybe I was wrong and that there could be some truth to what he was saying, but I guess not...
I told him it's psychological, and he told me to look up on the internet the "Body and Mind problem". He said that there is a mechanism that connects the body and mind but he hasn't found it yet... WTF?
|
Look, he can't get a hard-on consistantly with women. That would really suck *BIG TIME* to any guy. So the guy tries to place blame outside of himself. That's understandable. Sure, blame masturbation, blame lack of estrogen contact, blame working out, blame lack of $3,000 worth of Chinese herbs... whatever. They're all excuses; the probable fact is that he's psyching himself out.
Don't blame yourself for taking a pass on this guy; he's in his own depressive delusional world. He's making up reasons for his own problems, and folks like that can be very creative.
I'd just wonder why you feel compelled to stick by people who are so obviously self-destructive. It's a losing proposition.