I send 1,000 clicks to One and Only (the first one I joined) - I got a whopping 3 - count em THREE free sign ups and no money.
I send around 5,000 clicks to friend finder and get about 290 free sign ups and around $330.
With dreammates - they do not keep track of the hits over time, but let you know when you log in - I guess I convert at 1 in three clicks to 1 in 5 clicks. That is somewhere between 20 and 33 cents a click. I just checked and had 29 visitors with 8 free sign ups. My traffic has gotten better over time - and it is targeted - as they are on sites about dating or personals. So I don't want to mislead you, but if you are making money with friend finder - I am almost positive you could make more with dreammates. They have a $100 minimum though, so some people might not like that - also they are in canada, but they pay in US funds.
They have a new banner that is not out yet that I have been testing for them. If you are interested in it - I will ask them if I can give it out. It does better than their regular banner (if you do pick one of their banners - pick the one with the girl with her head tilted), but text links work the best.
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