Hey sweet thing...I'm sorry you had such a traumatic event! I'm not sure where you are, but here's a link to a Cali site that handles how to make a complaint about nursing homes. I know it's tough to stick your neck out, but think about how many patients have been sexually assaulted due to the negligence of the staff to monitor their patients. (And I don't care how off his rocker the man is, to his victims, it has NO impact whatsoever on their trauma!)
http://www.canhr.org/complaint.htm
Much love!
Chase