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Originally posted by Veterans Day
why would anyone need a book to read? Dont spend more than you make its quite easy. And it may look like a bankruptcy but if its not a judgement it's not bankruptcy. There are a ton of lenders that will refi your home or lend money right after you leave the court house and file bankruptcy. Live and learn
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yes its easy to say "dont spend more than you make" but the fact is.. its allready happened over a period of years with the help of my hubby and those words can do nothing to help me out of my predictament.
I have worked my ass off..still do and will be till this shit is paid off...the shitty thing is making your parnter see that money does not grow out of your ass and you arent a cash cow (moooooo)
I paid all of my debt off when i met hubby.. now I am worse off than before. Everytime I tried to take control of the spending.. he said I was being a controling bitch.. I tried to not be so controling and it fucked me hard. SO now I have to tell a grown man how we are going to pay this shit off and what we have to get rid of..he is not liking anything I have to say..at all...
If I were single this would not be a problem..and all you guys complain about your women spending too much... bah!