Don't most people (especially those with kids) feel good just knowing they helped out here rather than expecting free advertising or individual acknowlegements of thanks or seeing their nicks on a list?
You have a chance to help a fellow member of the Adult community who certainly appreciates every donation as you would if you were in his situation. So think what crap you waste your money on in a week whether it's fast food, beer, drugs or whatever and put it to good use instead
here if you haven't already.