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Heart wrenching. I had two of them and wouldn't want anyone to go through the challenges involved.
Its really, really hard.
I had one in my 20's. Flew in from LA to Maryland for my sister's wedding and hit it off with one of her bridesmaids. Girl was drop dead gorgeous. Blonde, blue eyes, perfect bod, old money blue blood family, sparkling fun personality, the whole perfect package. We were making out the same night we met there was such a strong chemistry and connection between us.
I ended up staying for a week after the wedding was over. Only problem she was still at University of Maryland and I lived on the west coast.
I was so depressed flying home. I couldn't get her out of my mind. We were on the phone all the time. I started flying back every couple weeks to see her.
Then after about 6 months, I was calling and she never seemed to around when I called and always sounded bullshitty saying where she had been. I sensed the worst and I was right. Some other hunk in one of her classes made a play for her and she was playing both of us at the same time.
I tried to get her to move out west and go to school out there but she didn't want to leave U of M. It turned into a futil and depressing effort.
Had to face the harsh reality and let go. My heart was empty and sad for many months.
My other long distance relationship was with a girl from Australia I met on the Net. Don't even want to talk about that one. It turned out to be a total nightmare.
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