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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Of course there could be a chance I misheard, but I highly doubt it. She's lied to me before, but the only found out most previous things through hearsay, although from a reliable source (her best friend which is my best friend's girlfriend who I'm also very good friends with) let them slide.
What happened was we were having a little argument over the phone (no raising of voices or anything) and then she told me to hold on, i guess she meant to put her hand over the mouth piece but didn't work correctly and I heard CLEARLY "say you need the phone or something". It makes a lot of previous events make sense. It seems everytime we get into a phone argument she gets someone (ie: her brother) to bail her out by saying they need the phone. What also bothers me is that she can't face a problem. I like to talk things out, and she likes to sweep everything under the rug. Actually writing this post has made me closer to the break up decision.
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forgot to mention where I concluded she had something to hide. When started talking to me again I just said "I heard what you said" in kind of a joking tone and she immediatly became defensive.
I find her attitude towards this to be degrading, dishonest, and insulting. This is my girlfriend we are talking about here and I'm supposed to trust her. It has definetly been shattered.